In the last few weeks, I’ve had several fellow bloggers email me regarding not being able get much activity on their blogs. I know, it’s not like I have 200 comments per post like Problogger or ShoeMoney but considering that this blog still has that new car smell and it’s not my sole project right now, I think I’m doing OK. In some ways, I wish blogging was feasible when I was in high school or college. I definitely had way too much time on my hands back then.
Anyway, it’s pretty easy to get noticed if you can afford pay for advertising but what’s the easiest way to gain traction for free? As the post title states, simply figure out what you want out of your blog and do it for others first. Below is an easy step-by-step approach.
- Find other blogs in your niche. Aim for blogs that are slightly more mature than yours. For example, if you have a Google PR1, look for PR2 blogs; or if you have an Alexa ranking of 1,000,000, find 500k-800k ranked blogs. These sites will you give you a great chance of partnering because those bloggers are in a similar situation as you.
- Leave constructive comments on their posts. If possible, do it daily. Just add the blogs to a folder and Open All in Tab once a day. I actually don’t have much time to do step 1 so guess what, many of the blogs I visit daily are the ones who made a comment on my site first! Some of these bloggers left a single comment and actually got ten comments in return from me.
- Tweet their posts. This takes less time than commenting and this actually helps both of you anyway. Many tweeters have a good idea of who’s tweeting their posts and will return the favor.
- After a few weeks of commenting, add the reciprocating bloggers’ site to your blogroll. Then email them to see if they’d do the same for you.
Pretty easy right? I also suggest you sign up for their RSS feeds and click on the updates on comments check box if you want to keep up with what’s happening on their blogs.
Those of you who want to take it a step further, go ahead and perform a plug site review or offer to write guest post. Those take a little more time but if you’ve built a relationship with these bloggers, they’re a great way to take it to the next level.
Of course, all this hinges on that fact that you are not a whack-job. I can’t put folks on my blogroll who write like they’ve never finished first grade, are totally uninteresting, or act like people I wouldn’t care for. I’m not a blog snob but just like in real life, the company you keep says a lot about you (and Google PageRank agrees).
At the end of the day, don’t worry about keeping score. Often times, you’ll do more than you’ll get in return and that’s perfectly fine. Your blog will eventually surpass half of these blogs and will need new “partners” in a month or so anyway. Just rinse and repeat.










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This makes perfect sense Gabe, and has I have started following this advice I have learned a lot and actually enjoy reading and commenting on several different blogs. As usual, thanks for the great advice!
Thanks for the advice on getting more activity on blogs. I am about to start blogging and I am going to need all the help I can get. I am getting lots of good info and can’t wait to apply some of these.
I do commenting, commenting, and commenting like crazy, and that’s working great to bet traffic for my blog.

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Thanks for the feedback. A lot of my advice stems from years of SEO experience and my own personal blogging experience. Much of it is applied to this site!
New bloggers have a lot of things to learn but promotion is usually one thing they didn’t think of when they first started. Best of luck and let me know if there’s anyway I can help.
Dana, you are a commenting master. I see you everywhere! Keep up the hard work, I’m sure it’s paying off for you!
For some reason, your article really made sense to me. For weeks, I was wondering why people were not visiting my articles and now I understand why. I tried a few of these tips, and they definately help increase blog traffic. I checked on two of my blogs in the morning after trying this, and behold – already got 6 comments!
I guess it’s really not how much you post that counts, but more of a discussion intereaction which I think is wonderful!
Thanks for the tips Gabe, really helped me.
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No doubt, building relationships is key, no matter how mature the blog is. One myth that many new bloggers have is that they blog on an island. That lasts a few weeks until they realize no one’s reading their posts! That gets pretty old quick.
Yes, for me wordpress.com tags search is the best at the current moment.
Its paid off as I have been added to 1 more blog roll
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There is a definite food chain here, just like everywhere else, and very few people will speak or write about it openly.
When I started wiaw back in Feb, I didn’t even worry about getting traffic. In fact, I postponed doing anything at all about traffic until August. Proof is in lack of comments! Since then, I’ve been working it a bit harder. Which feels right because I now have something for people read.
Dave Doolin | Website In A Weekend´s last blog ..Top 5 Biggest Lies About Blogging for Money
Do unto others is the way to go for sure. I try to always comment back everyone who comments on my blog (although sometimes I fail. I’m not sure that I’m sold on the link exchange though. I guess exchanging links doesn’t hurt, but I have a tendency to be very stingy about who I put on my “blogroll.”
Retweeting, stumbling, digging, and sharing are all very important to a blog’s success. If you can find people who will share you articles and you can share back, it is a great exchange of value.
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As you climb the rankings, you’ll have more blogroll opportunities.
I didn’t spend much time promoting in the “early” days either b/c like you said, there’s not much content back then.
There’s still so much I could do to increase activity, I just need to work it into my daily schedule. Know where I can find another hour or two a day?
During the first few weeks, the blogroll will be pretty empty with the exception of other blogs in the same not-so-hot category (similar niche, similar traffic). Hard to be picky that early, IMO.
As the blog grows though, there’s always going to be a certain level of clean up, like removing links that you’ve outgrown or simply from folks who don’t deserve them.
Lastly, good point about using social bookmarks. I do exchange them for several regular visitors.
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Leverage your time.
I’m pretty much a blogging machine because I can leverage. Basically, I can turn just about anything into a blog post, the trick being able to stay more or less on topic. But I have a spare blog to slurp up excess posts, just in case.
Dave Doolin | Website In A Weekend´s last blog ..Top 5 Biggest Lies About Blogging for Money
it will really make sense..
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i like ur point of 10 comment for 1.
it very imp u find like minded people who comment back.
sometimes i feel commenting on each other blog is mutual understanding
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It usually is a mutual understanding but there will be a handful of people who leave a single comment and when I reciprocate for a few weeks and they haven’t returned, I have to spend my time elsewhere.
There has long been a need for hand book on blogging reciprocity. I do believe you have just written it. LOL!
There is nothing more frustrating then to help out fellow bloggers by lifting them up and promoting them through linking, RTing, blog visits and what not only to have them and others fail to do the same. I have always said there is room for all of us to succeed. Super Post

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If commenting is that important and if I were to visit
1. Other blogs in my own niche
2. Other blogs of my interest
and then
3. Constructively Comment on them all
I just need to find a way to do it easily, quickly and this should serve us bloggers our daily reading dosage. This is better than reading a newspaper( no one wants that depressing news).
Could you explain that ‘tab” idea once again? How exactly do you make all your favorite blogs open all at once?
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What you wrote is what I do every day. Here’s one way to do it using Firefox (IE has similar method as well).
1. Go to the Bookmarks menu and create a new folder; call it daily blogs or similar.
2. When you get to a site you want to comment on daily (like this one
), save the bookmark to that folder.
3. Once a day, go to the Bookmarks folder you created and on the bottom, click on “Open All in Tabs”.
4. Within a few seconds, all the pages open up in tabs for you in the browser.